A student taught in femminist studies since childhood realised something one day: Things didn’t sound right. One in four women raped? A rape occuring every 6 seconds? Rape self defense courses taught to women in highschool, for what purpose?
And so started the research and the wondering, the pondering and the writing. Eventually, this student learnt something; There wasn’t equality, and there sure as hell wasn’t chivalry. Who needed it when women would happily sleep with a man in attempts to start a relationship? Who’d need to show affection when “diamonds [were] a girl’s best friend”. Ideas may be gender based, but good ideas go beyond that.
So now you get to read some of my thoughts and ideas, and maybe you could teach me a thing or two.
In the meanwhile, I must go back to the kitchen ~
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February 7, 2007 at 11:23 am
rw_man
K,
I seriously bet that there is a hidden and silent majority of women out there that are wanting Real and Traditional Men.
I’d seriously think of starting a movement based on that..
The Association of Real Women who want Real Men or something like that..
I’d lay down a charter spelling out exactly what roles you want your Man to provide along with the roles that Women members should be encouraged to take on for themselves.
I seriously bet there are enough women out there who are totally fed up with the brainwashed “Dan’s” in this world. You might be the key to get that started.
Cheers GL..
February 7, 2007 at 9:49 pm
THE PROUD FEMINIST
yeah dude, the silent majority always exists, they’re just too busy being silent to say anything.
March 7, 2007 at 6:45 pm
Canuck
This is truly an East V. West and deeply pervasive social and civil battle/war.
In defining what you want in girls/women simply express what is Russian or South American—in some instances, as well as Asian—although there are now cracks emerging even in places like Japan.
As far as the real men who love them, it is unfortunate that the real men have allowed their respective countries to fall, under the guise of becoming “modern”. There is nothing dark ages about what is real or normal.
We need to link to each other, to all and every website which supports the values of all “normal” and “real” men and girls/women everywhere. And as I had already suggested to rw, link internationally, in all languages. This is really key.
In the meantime, God love all real girls everywhere. I love that I can so freely use the word “girl” in Russia and have it refer to a beautiful female who still maintains her innocence and softness. So, for starters, I pledge to you that I will happily personally take back this word, when I am interviewed by the West in becoming a cultural public figure, when it is germane to the conversation.
Warm regards.
March 18, 2007 at 11:53 pm
khankrumthebulgar
Bravo. It takes moral courage to buck the trend. And to look at life realistically. Men need Women who will share the tribulations and trials of life on an equal basis. Feminism is a hate movement. Based upon lies, being discredited by Science. Gender is not a social Construct. It is hard wired behavior. The reality that Women like you realize that Men and Women used to be partners in this Vail of Tears we call Life. And now are being divided. Means that we are increasingly being marginalized and hated by our former partners.
It was a specialization of roles. The whole idea of a Patriarchy is such nonsense. Feminism is the theory, Lesbianism is the practice. Heterosexual Women are seen as sell outs to Feminists. Apparently German Women are coming in large numbers to the realization that Feminism is massive fraud. Men and Women need each other. Like a Fish needs Water. I applaud your moral courage. You will make some lucky Man a wonderful Wife, and you will be a wonderful Mother.
Set up a donation account. There is no shame on asking for help when it is needed. You may be surprised. I wish you well.
June 30, 2007 at 10:22 pm
freedom_phil
A convoluted stumble by a tinternet bumbler can lead to some special places…..
a breath of fresh air - after years of fighting a lonely battle. It has been almost impossible, however much discussions have been demonstrably enveloped with love, to take on as a man the assault on truth and destruction of femininity that has become the accepted logic from many female (and increasingly male) perspectives.
It can only be honest decent women that can stem the flow of nonsense - and also stop the misogynist hate sites from being the only place that the truth is being told. How dangerous it is to allow people who are consumed with hatred to have right on their side. I feel genuinely very sad at how so many young girls have been taught not to subscribe to all the virtues of natural feminity and how in the battle to combat the “selfishness of men” the outcome is to condone and applaud female selfishness; and in the battle not to be seen “as just sex objects” it has become acceptable to use sex dispassionately, dishonestly and even visciously - the change and sadness being in the “acceptable”.
Please keep up the good work - in the name of truth, beauty, femininity and mankind.
In the end the world is made of people - some good, some not so good and some shit; and bigotry is bigotry, whichever direction it is fired from.
x
August 1, 2007 at 1:58 pm
Engendertruth
“Bigotry is bigotry…whichever direction it is fired from”
Ah! I couldn’t have put it better myself!
December 7, 2007 at 11:49 pm
Curiepoint
Will you marry me, K?